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3 Truths When You Need a More Joyful Outlook

September 24, 2019 by betsydecruz 18 Comments

A joyful outlook brightens our days and helps us through times of trial. 3 truths help us remember the Gospel means good news for us. Now and forever. #joy #goodnewsWhat made me think it was a good idea to bring 20 chiles rellenos to the church newcomers’ lunch when they’d asked me for a dessert? I was sweating both from the effort of roasting, peeling, stuffing and frying poblano peppers as well as from the realization that I’d show up one hour late. Everyone would finish lunch, look in vain for the dessert, and I’d show up with a platter of chiles rellenos. Awkward.

I’d seen the sign for the welcome lunch and remembered I’d forgotten about the Tres Leches cake I’d volunteered to bring. (What was wrong with me, anyway?)

I rushed out to the grocery store down the street, only to find they’d run out of desserts. No cake, no cookies, nothing left in the bakery section.

Unbelievable.

Too panicked to think straight, I grabbed up 20 poblano chiles and ingredients to make the only thing that came to mind: chiles rellenos. Two important facts hadn’t registered in my mind: 1) It wasn’t even a dessert and 2) I didn’t actually have time to make it.

Perspiration dripped from my forehead.

Tense was an understatement.

Until I woke up and laughed to realize it had all been a dream! I still had 24 hours to make the cake, and the ingredients were in the pantry and fridge!

(About two or three times a year, I have what I call a “stress dream,” usually about some bizarre mishap related to hospitality, cooking, or a ministry event. This one was the most bizarre yet. Twenty chiles rellenos? How had my mind come up with that?)

Relief flooded my soul. I could still make good on my promise to bring the Tres Leches. Compared to how things had looked during said stress dream, life was looking up.

Suddenly I had a more joyful outlook.

My entire day was infused with a more joyful outlook because no matter what, the chile relleno blooper had just been a dream. Small things went wrong that day, but I remained positive because I still had time to make the cake. An ordinary Saturday became a day of joy, for the simple fact that I still had 24 hours to make a cake. Everything looked better and brighter.

Perhaps joy is in the eye of the beholder. It all depends on how we look at life.

What if we looked at life through the lens of all the blessings we already have in Christ? God loves us with a never-ending love, Jesus died on the cross for us, we have a Helper, and we have the hope of eternity with our precious Savior.

What if we smiled a little more at the good news of the Gospel?

What if we smiled a little more at the good news of the gospel?

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A joyful outlook brightens our days and helps us through times of trial. 3 truths help us remember the Gospel means good news for us. Now and forever. #joy #goodnews

3 truths help me keep a more joyful outlook on life:

1. God loves us forever and always.

His love gives us a security nothing can take away: “And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38,39)

2. We have a Helper.

He never leaves our side, and He whispers this: “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10)

3. Heaven’s future glory far outweighs today’s trials.

Let’s keep eternity with Christ in mind: “For our present troubles are small and won’t last very long. Yet they produce for us a glory that vastly outweighs them and will last forever! So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. For the things we see now will soon be gone, but the things we cannot see will last forever.”  (2 Corinthians 4:17-18)

What if we realized the stresses and worries we make so much of are actually small blips on God’s radar? God is in control, and He is working all things for good. Let’s give Him thanks in all circumstances.

God is our present #help and future #hope. He works all things for our good

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Even when life brings trials, we can choose to remember our narrative of joy: God is our present help and future hope. We have a Savior who will return for us one day. We have good news that will last forever. What if we smile more today?

Now it’s your turn: What is Biblical truth that renews your joy when you let it sink in?

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  1. Kristi Woods says

    September 24, 2019 at 9:50 am

    Oh Betsy, what a dream! 😀💗 Strong, strong encouragement—yes for recalling those blessings God pours upon us.

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    • betsydecruz says

      September 24, 2019 at 10:23 am

      I’ve been laughing at it for two weeks. Still marveling over what a great day I had that Saturday! Yes, He has poured out blessings!

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  2. Jana says

    September 24, 2019 at 10:04 am

    Oh, Betsy! The story of your dream is hilarious! I felt stressed along with you. And I couldn’t figure out how a grocery store could possibly run out of all desserts! Too funny.

    The Truth of the power of God’s Word encourages me. It is living and active. When I’m really needing a shift in perspective, I tend to turn to the Psalms. The Psalmist expresses the realities of life – grief, anxiety, etc. – but always points me back to Who God is and what He’s done. I feel understood and encouraged every time.

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    • betsydecruz says

      September 24, 2019 at 10:24 am

      Yes, Jana!The Psalms contain such encouragement for me as well. I have read one each day for 30+ years. I think you’re right about how they express life realities, and sometimes give us words for what we don’t even realize we’re feeling!

      Glad the story made you smile. 🙂

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  3. Linda Stoll says

    September 24, 2019 at 2:01 pm

    Betsy, thanks for this sacred nudge to choose joy.

    It’s far too easy to go in the opposite direction …

    Bless you this afternoon.

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    • betsydecruz says

      September 24, 2019 at 2:34 pm

      Thanks so much, Linda! I appreciate you, friend. <3

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  4. Michele Morin says

    September 25, 2019 at 6:48 am

    Oh, those killer stress dreams!
    I was panicking right along with you in the grocery store, and am rejoicing with you that you were so well prepared in real life!

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    • betsydecruz says

      September 26, 2019 at 5:35 am

      Thank you, Michele! I appreciate you.

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  5. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    September 25, 2019 at 9:33 am

    Betsy,
    I’ve had those kind of stress dreams. I usually wake up exhausted after having them. Why are we stressing in our sleep? Your post came at the perfect time…what beautiful scripture to pause and meditate on when the everyday trials of life are grinding me down. I read through your suggested scriptures a couple of times just to allow it to sink in!
    Blessings and thanks,
    Bev xx

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    • betsydecruz says

      September 26, 2019 at 5:36 am

      What made it funny was I really had no reason to stress over making a cake! I’m glad these Scriptures encouraged you. I need to read them again myself. <3

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  6. Rebecca Hastings says

    September 26, 2019 at 6:19 am

    I love this! God is so good, my friend!

    I always love remembering things God says about me. It gives me strength to keep going (especially in hard times.) My favorite is Matthew 11:28-30 in the Message version.

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  7. Lois Flowers says

    September 26, 2019 at 9:24 am

    Oh my, Betsy! I can imagine the relief you felt when you woke up and realized that was just a dream. I often think of Psalm 16:11 … it helps to remember that God will show me the path of life, that in HIS presence is fullness of joy. 🙂

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  8. Maree Dee says

    September 26, 2019 at 4:19 pm

    I am always so releived when I wake up from those kinds of dream. You had me going and laughing. You are so right joy is all around us.

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    • betsydecruz says

      October 1, 2019 at 2:59 pm

      Thanks for your words here, Maree.

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  9. Charla says

    September 27, 2019 at 7:33 pm

    “So do not be like them; for your Father knows what you need before you ask Him.“ —Matthew 6.8

    Knowing God’s got this gives me a much joy! I love experiencing this truth, too. Moments when I stop and consider how moments, circumstances, and people line up to meet a need makes me smile toward heaven.

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    • betsydecruz says

      October 1, 2019 at 3:00 pm

      Amen, Charla! Thanks for sharing that verse. <3

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  10. Mary Geisen says

    September 30, 2019 at 8:23 am

    First, I have had similar stress dreams before. Thank goodness for waking up. I find joy when I change my perspective. I do this with worship music, taking a walk, or doing something else so I can come back refreshed and find the joy.

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    • betsydecruz says

      October 1, 2019 at 3:00 pm

      So I’m not the only one that has those stress dreams? That is relieving! I was beginning to wonder about myself. Yes, a changed perspective can refresh us for sure.

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