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When You Need to Shift Your Perspective Towards God

February 6, 2020 by betsydecruz 16 Comments

When you're discouraged, it can help to shift your perspective towards God. Looking beyond our problems to see the presence of God renews our #hope and #joy. #encouragement

My husband and I embarked on the craziest, most impossible faith venture of our lives. Ten years ago God called us to plant a new church in a Muslim city where, humanly speaking, no one was interested in the gospel. We had no idea what we were getting ourselves into, nor how much we’d need to shift our perspective towards God when things got hard, fast.

We left the warm security of the church where we’d served seven years to start a Sunday Bible study meeting in our living room. The only people crazy enough to join us were a newly arrived Mexican couple who couldn’t speak the local language yet.

Sunday after Sunday we’d sit on the living room couch and stare at each other, wondering if anyone we’d invited would come.  Visitors rarely joined us. We were 9 people, if  we counted the kids.

Not exactly a shining start.

Yet we prayed fervently, with great expectations that God would break through and change our situation. Of course, He would! Didn’t God want more people to come to Christ in our neighborhood? We prayed and we hoped.

Can you relate to hoping and praying God will change your situation?

Maybe you’re praying for a new job or new life in your marriage. Maybe you’re praying for healing or even just for God to lift discouragement off you and give you fresh hope again. When we pray and don’t see the answers as quickly as we’d like, it’s easy to lose perspective, isn’t it?

In my difficult ministry experience, it only took about 5 weeks for discouragement to set in. My faith plummeted; I lost perspective and started questioning God. Why wasn’t He answering our prayers? Had we even heard Him in the first place?

I couldn’t see God coming through for me, and maybe right now, you can’t see Him either.

Sometimes We Need to Shift our Perspective

The second year of our church planting effort, I was wallowing in the depths of despair—not really living the Christian superhero life—when I had a lightbulb moment. I realized I was looking at my whole life through the lens of whether our church plant was succeeding or failing.

I needed to shift my perspective away from my situation and towards God.

Regardless of how our church went, I needed to look to the Lord and leave the results of my work to Him. No matter what, I could find joy from being His child. (You’d think a Christian worker would have already known that, but I didn’t.)

When It’s Hard to Change Your Focus

If you’re in the middle of a tough situation and all you can see is what is going wrong in your life, my friend Abby McDonald has written a book to help you:

When you're discouraged, it can help to shift your perspective towards God. Looking beyond our problems to see the presence of God renews our hope and joy.

The book Shift is about Changing our Focus to See the Presence of God in the middle of our problems. Especially when we’re not seeing God work the way we hope.“ Shift explores the life-changing truth that when we adjust our lens to focus our eyes on God Himself rather than on what we wish we were seeing in our lives, He reveals Himself to us and to those around us.”

If you’re struggling right now and wondering why God isn’t changing your hard circumstances, the book Shift will help you see Him with fresh eyes. Like a friend, Abby comes alongside us and weaves real life stories into her message of hope. Shift encourages us to seek God in the middle of our struggles and focus on His presence with us.

As I think back to our church-planting experience, I realize God did, indeed, work a miracle. Four years after starting, we gained legal status and a public meeting place. We grew from 9 people to 30. It sounds small, but given our location in the Middle East, it was a small miracle!

However, the greater miracle happened inside me. I learned to shift my perspective towards God and find joy in Him despite the challenges I was living, and that lesson still serves me today.

When you're discouraged, it can help to shift your perspective towards God. Looking beyond our problems to see the presence of God renews our #hope and #joy. #encouragement

I highly recommend Abby’s book, but whether or not you buy it, will you do something today? Will you pray to ask God to help you shift your gaze towards Him?

Prayer: Lord, I don’t always understand why things happen the way they do, but would you help me today to turn my eyes away from my circumstance and towards you? Help me to see you more clearly and sense your presence with me today. In Jesus’ name, amen.

When we shift our gaze towards God, He renews our #joy.

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Now it’s your turn: Have you had a tough experience lately where you needed to shift your focus back toward God? What did you learn through it? 

Are you facing the challenges of life on an empty tank? Need help renewing your relationship with God?

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  1. Mary Geisen says

    February 7, 2020 at 7:32 am

    I have heard so many good things about Abby’s new book, Shift. There is so much truth in your words and the struggle we all face when life does not go as we planned or imagined. I am learning how changing my focus/perspective and looking at life through the lens of God makes all the difference. Thank you for sharing the beginnings of your ministry and the fruitfulness that God provided.

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 7, 2020 at 7:43 am

      Thanks for your encouragement, Mary! I can imagine you have many similar testimonies of God’s fruitfulness in you. Yes, Abby’s book is so encouraging. She is so easy to read and down to earth. Lots of good stories.

      Reply
  2. Susan says

    February 7, 2020 at 11:32 am

    Twelve years ago I prayed that God would heal me. I had a lump on my neck and I would lay hands on it and pray. Well, two years later I told my doctor that I was tired of messing with it, I had had so many ultrasounds on it and i thought apparently God was not going to heal me. So I went to another doctor and after a needle biopsy, found out it was Stage 3 thyroid cancer. Once I got the diagnosis I felt such peace flood over me! I knew God would be with me no matter what!

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 12, 2020 at 11:05 am

      Thank you so much for sharing your story, Susan. I am so thankful that you are able to sense the Lord’s presence with you in the middle of your diagnosis. Praying for you now.

      Reply
  3. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    February 7, 2020 at 12:35 pm

    Betsy,
    It is so easy to get caught up in our circumstances and our own perspective instead of trusting that God knows what he’s doing. Abby’s is such a talented writer. I’m sure she has done a beautiful job handling this subject and encouraging others to shift their focus back to God. Thanks for sharing your review and highlights!
    Blessings,
    Bev xx

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 12, 2020 at 11:06 am

      You are so welcome, Bev. I know that you have probably learned this lesson yourself many times. We always need to re-remember truth, don’t we?

      Reply
  4. Ginger Harrington says

    February 7, 2020 at 3:37 pm

    Love this peek into your church planting experience. Love Abby’s writing and looking forward to reading her book.

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 12, 2020 at 11:07 am

      Thanks so much for your encouragement, Ginger. I appreciate you and your friendship.

      Reply
  5. shelley singh says

    February 9, 2020 at 11:18 pm

    Thank you for this fresh perspective. It is easy to get focused on what is in front of us. Thank you for the book recommendation.

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 12, 2020 at 11:04 am

      You are so welcome, Shelley. Thanks for reading.

      Reply
  6. Kristi Woods says

    February 12, 2020 at 8:41 am

    Funny enough, I need this message right now. Sometimes we know, but then we need to know again. Thanks to both you and Abby for being those messengers. xo

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 12, 2020 at 11:04 am

      I totally get what you are saying about “I know this, but I forgot it. Need to relearn it!”

      Reply
  7. Christy Mobley says

    February 21, 2020 at 5:56 am

    I was encouraged by your story Betsy. And I love Abby’s book!

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 28, 2020 at 11:32 am

      Thanks for chiming in, Christy!

      Reply
  8. Karen says

    February 23, 2020 at 6:22 am

    Thanks. I needed to hear this today. Praying I will take my eyes off my circumstances and onto the Lord.

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    • betsydecruz says

      February 28, 2020 at 11:31 am

      Praying for you right now, Karen! Thanks for commenting.

      Reply

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