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Hope When You Can’t See God at Work

December 6, 2016 by betsydecruz 41 Comments

If you’re praying, but don’t see God at work, take heart. Look for small answers, and remember that God’s love and light always win.

The Christmas story is good news when we wonder if God hears our prayers. Celebrations, carols, and lights bring tidings of joy, but some of you might be battling discouragement. As the year comes to an end, we may see things in our lives we wish were different. Maybe we asked God to change them, but it doesn’t look like He did.

We carry around inside the ache of unanswered prayer.

In the opening pages of Luke, we find an elderly couple familiar with that same ache.  Zechariah and Elizabeth had prayed for years that God would give them a child. They had no way of knowing the child they were praying for would play a key role in preparing the way for God’s Son. They had no idea He was waiting for the perfect time to answer their prayer. Surely, they knew the heartache of prayer unanswered while they waited on God.

I know it too, and tucked in this story, I find a truth that encourages me.

Zechariah was gripped with fear when he saw the angel of the Lord in the temple. Some of us may be gripped with fear that our lives will never change, our hearts will never heal, or our prayers for loved ones will never be answered. We fear God will never come through.

That’s why the angel’s words to Zechariah are good news for us:

If you’re praying, but don’t see God at work, take heart. Look for small answers, and remember that God’s love and light always win.

Can we just stop a minute and insert our own names into that verse?

“Do not be afraid,__________________; your prayer has been heard…”

Maybe you’ve been praying for a baby, like Zechariah and Elizabeth, yet God hasn’t given the answer you hope for. Perhaps you’re praying for a child you already have, yet you can’t see God working. Maybe your marriage needs a miracle. Or your broken heart needs healing. Friend, I don’t know what you’re praying for, but rest assured, God hears and treasures every word you lift up to Him.

What good news! God hears our prayers. We may not have the answers we hope for yet, but God hears, and He cares. We can trust He is in control, and He is at work for our good.

If you’re praying, but don’t see God at work, take heart. Look for small answers.

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If you’re praying, yet don’t see God at work, take heart:

Look for small answers.

Last week I fasted and prayed throughout the day for one of my children in a crisis moment. At the end of the day, I sensed no perceptible change. “Do my prayers make a difference?” I wondered. Yet a week later I received a small answer: a 6 word text message from my young adult child that let me know God is at work. He hasn’t forgotten me or my children. He’ll complete the good work He began.

Take courage and keep praying.

Remember. Light wins over darkness.

Love wins over fear.

Grace wins over guilt and shame.

God is on our side, and He will answer in His perfect timing. We are blessed as we believe.

Lord, I believe. Help my unbelief. Even when my heart aches with the pain of unanswered prayer, help me to believe you love me deeply. Strengthen my faith. Open my ears to hear and my eyes to see the quiet, small answers I may be missing. Help me to see more of your glory, power, and love at work in my life today. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

If you’re praying, but don’t see God at work, take heart. Look for small answers, and remember that God’s love and light always win.

Discouraged by unanswered prayer? Remember. God’s love and light always win.

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  1. Joanne Viola says

    December 6, 2016 at 7:04 am

    Beautiful & hope filled post, Betsy. God is always at work, even when it appears to us that He is not. He oftentimes works His plan out in obscurity. But His plan is always good and for our good. Blessings to you and yours!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 7:46 am

      Yes, He is always at work, isn’t He, Joanne? Even when we can’t see.

      Reply
  2. Michele Morin says

    December 6, 2016 at 7:48 am

    I love how you share your faith — and how you share your doubts. We’re such a confused bundle of both. And — I’m so thankful for that little glimmer of light that came in that 6 word text. God is so gracious. May He give us faith to persevere by faith, even when there is, for the time being, no sight of an answer!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 9:10 am

      Yes, confused bundle describes me well! 🙂 Yes, I’m thankful for glimmers of light.

      Reply
  3. Mary Geisen says

    December 6, 2016 at 8:36 am

    Thank you for bringing me hope today. Pray without ceasing needs to become my mantra. God does answer our prayers but we need to be open to receiving and hearing from him. May we all make time to be with God and then keep our hearts open to receiving all he has to give us.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 9:10 am

      Yes, Mary, sometimes he answers a little differently than we expect?

      Reply
  4. Kristi Woods says

    December 6, 2016 at 9:31 am

    I love the earlier exercise of inserting our name. Personalizing things puts it all in perspective. You’re such an encourager, Betsy, and one with such a generous helping of compassion. Praise God for His work in and through you.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 1:54 pm

      Oh gosh, thank you, Kristi. I see Him at work in and through you too, friend. Yes, I love inserting my name in to some verses. 🙂

      Reply
  5. Tiffany Parry says

    December 6, 2016 at 10:38 am

    Take courage and keep praying – sometimes His answer is to simply persevere. Love your encouragement to cling to the good news and remember that it is OUR hope.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 1:57 pm

      Persevering is so hard, isn’t it? Just today I was reading, “Knock and the door will be opened…”

      Reply
  6. LaNette says

    December 6, 2016 at 11:07 am

    I read this early this AM and was encouraged, then came home and did some of my Jesse Tree Advent reading — about Joseph and about Moses. I am sure that they too at times felt as though their prayers were going unanswered and felt fearful. God is so good to give us reminders of His faithfulness and working ALL things together for good!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 1:59 pm

      Yes, I’m sure they did feel that way sometimes, LaNette. It encourages me to remember that. We see the results of their stories now, but they must have experienced doubt walking in the middle.

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  7. Lesley says

    December 6, 2016 at 1:02 pm

    Thanks for this encouraging and hopeful post. It is good to remember that God hears our prayers and he knows what is best for us, and that often he is at work even when we can’t see the evidence of it.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 6, 2016 at 2:01 pm

      Yes, Lesley! He is always at work. For our good and His glory.

      Reply
  8. Megs says

    December 6, 2016 at 2:15 pm

    I love Zechariah’s story. Oh, if we could only actually believe with our whole hearts that He is faithful and hears us when we pray.
    Happy Tuesday!
    Testimony Tuesday
    Megs

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 2:07 am

      And Happy Wednesday to you, Megs! Oh yes, let’s BELIEVE. With our whole hearts. Help our unbelief, Lord!

      Reply
  9. CRYSTAL HALL says

    December 6, 2016 at 2:26 pm

    Love this Betsy, very timely for me and I’m sure for many others.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 2:07 am

      Advent blessings to you, Crystal.

      Reply
  10. Kristine says

    December 7, 2016 at 5:53 am

    Love this Betsy. This reminder is ALWAYS a welcome Word. (Especially when it comes to our children!) I’m holding onto this truth today as I go through my day, and the next, and the next! Blessings, friend:)

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 1:49 pm

      Thank you, Kristine. Grace to you during your last weeks of school before the holiday. I appreciate you!

      Reply
  11. Sarah Donegan says

    December 7, 2016 at 6:55 am

    I needed hope today for my brother. Thank you!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 1:50 pm

      I’m praying for him now, Sarah. <3 Lord, have your way in Sarah's brother.

      Reply
  12. Valerie Sisco says

    December 7, 2016 at 9:33 am

    Hi Betsy,
    I loved this! Knowing God is still at work even when we don’t see him is so encouraging! And I loved how after your fasting and prayer time, you weren’t sure if it made any difference, yet a week later you get confirmation. I have found it more and more that God does not answer when we think we need to hear from him, yet if we keep our eyes open, he does answer days or weeks or months down the road and that’s when it’s an even greater encouragement to our hearts!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 1:58 pm

      Yes, it’s true, Valerie. Often we just need to keep our eyes open. I wonder how many answers to pray I miss. May the Lord increase our faith.

      Reply
  13. Linda Stoll says

    December 7, 2016 at 10:06 am

    Praise God for 6 word texts and other very real evidences of His grace and answered prayer.

    He’s hard at work in our lives … oh for eyes to spot His hand, His heart.

    Comfort and joy to you, dear Betsy.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 1:59 pm

      Thank you, Linda. After that 6 word text, I saw more of His hand at work. But yes to eyes to spot His hand and heart.

      Reply
  14. Anita Ojeda says

    December 7, 2016 at 10:21 am

    What beautiful words, Betsy! They encouraged me as I fretted over my daughter’s upcoming trip to Brazil over the holidays. I’ll be clinging to that verse until she returns safely!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 7, 2016 at 2:00 pm

      Oh Anita, I can understand you. May the Lord give you perfect peace and protect your daughter on her trip to Brazil. My Turkish daughter is going to Brazil in February, but we’re from El Salvador, so it doesn’t seem that bad to us. 🙂

      Reply
  15. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    December 7, 2016 at 12:35 pm

    Betsy,
    Inserting my name and praying that prayer right now. ..thanks, I needed this!!
    Blessinfs,
    Bev

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  16. Jeannie Prinsen says

    December 8, 2016 at 12:18 pm

    Really appreciate your post, Betsy. I have been feeling very discouraged lately with challenges with our kids, and I need that reminder to trust that God sees and listens and is working. Thank you so much!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 8, 2016 at 12:49 pm

      Oh, I’m sorry you’ve been feeling discouraged Jeannie. Yes, He sees and listens. Grace to you, friend. May His love surround you.

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  17. NAnn says

    December 8, 2016 at 3:35 pm

    Dear Betsy — Searching for the “right” Scripture verse to send a friend ended when I read this. It is perfect. Thank you. A bit later I opened a daily devotional and read: “You have heard my supplication and will receive my prayer. You have said that You will answer my prayers . . . ” What a confirmation! Christmas blessings to you and your family.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 9, 2016 at 2:14 am

      I’m so glad to know this. Amazing how God speaks to us so many different ways through so many people. I hear His voice through you now. Blessings to you back!

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  18. Lisa Appelo says

    December 9, 2016 at 8:26 am

    Waiting on God is its own hard, isn’t it? I’m learning to do just what you say, Betsy — to find the small answers to prayer in the wait. The grace and goodness God has for us always. <3

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 10, 2016 at 11:33 pm

      Yes, yes, yes to looking for the small answers. Blessings to you, Lisa.

      Reply
  19. Laura Rath says

    December 9, 2016 at 8:48 am

    I needed this hopeful message today. Thank you!
    Visiting from Grace & Truth.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 10, 2016 at 11:33 pm

      I’m honored that you would read my words, Laura.

      Reply
  20. Jennifer Clarke says

    December 13, 2016 at 7:24 am

    I very much appreciate the wisdom you’ve shared here, Betsy. So often we become discouraged when we don’t see God at work. Maybe we’re enduring times of trial, or maybe we feel like we’re simply stuck in God’s waiting room. But it has helped me so much to look back on God’s faithfulness, and to remember that His ways are infinite. God is always, ALWAYS at work, whether or not I see it at any given moment. Thank you for sharing this important truth with us at Grace & Truth!

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 13, 2016 at 10:03 am

      Yes, Jennifer! He is ALWAYS at work. Just this morning I sat and looked back over my journal from the past year. I was filled with gratefulness to see what God did and how He spoke to me.

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  21. Rachel Britton says

    December 13, 2016 at 10:56 am

    Great minds think alike, Betsy, or rather I should say God speaks a message to us in more ways than one. I’ve been studying Elizabeth’s story and unanswered prayer in a new series starting today on my blog called #PrayBoldGirl.

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    • betsydecruz says

      December 14, 2016 at 12:05 pm

      #PrayBoldGirl. I love that, Rachel. So good. May the Lord speak to you and use your words to encourage many.

      Reply

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