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Courage When You’re Afraid to Be Bold

April 11, 2017 by betsydecruz 10 Comments

Courage doesn’t mean we’re not afraid. No matter what we're scared of, God is bigger. Here’s encouragement for whatever fears you're facing.

I always said I’d celebrate my 50th birthday by getting a tattoo. But 50 came and went, and I didn’t get that tattoo after all. I was too scared. Scared of what people might think since I don’t exactly look like the tattoo type. Scared it would hurt too much and scared I’d regret it later.

But a friend’s tattoo keeps catching my eye. It says:

“Courage, dear heart.”

“Courage, dear heart.” The words speak to me because I may look brave on the outside, but on the inside I’m a chicken. I mean what woman is too scared to even get a tattoo? When I see the words on my friend’s arm, I remember all the times I’ve felt fear. Fear that would have paralyzed me had God not kept me moving forward.

God gave me Courage to do things afraid:

I was scared to death to get on a plane from Texas to Istanbul when I was 24. Even more scared when I arrived at my new Turkish home with people I could barely talk to.

When I could hardly walk at age 27 and the doctor said, “Rheumatoid arthritis,” I was terrified…

Please follow this link to join me at my friend Rachel Britton’s place. I’m writing about how God moves us forward when we feel afraid for Rachel’s #BeBoldGirl series.

Courage doesn’t mean we’re not afraid. No matter what we're scared of, God is bigger. Here’s encouragement for whatever fears you're facing.

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I’m linking up with Holly Barrett’s #TestimonyTuesday, Kelly Balarie’s #RaRaLinkup, Holley Gerth’s Coffee for your Heart, Crystal Storms’ #HeartEncouragement, and Arabah Joy’s Grace and Truth. Check out these communities for more encouragement.

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  1. Katie M. Reid says

    April 11, 2017 at 7:11 am

    Hi Friend! Enjoyed your words as usual. 🙂

    Reply
    • betsydecruz says

      April 11, 2017 at 9:46 am

      Thank you, dear Katie.

      Reply
  2. Ifeoma Samuel says

    April 11, 2017 at 7:14 am

    Ok, Courage for the Hard things…especially the things Jesus requires us to do…

    I can’t wait to finish reading this testimony, heading over there, Betsy.
    God Bless

    Reply
    • betsydecruz says

      April 11, 2017 at 9:47 am

      Thanks so much, Ifeoma. You are one courageous woman!

      Reply
  3. Michele Morin says

    April 11, 2017 at 9:51 am

    Such an intriguing post! Headed over to Rachel’s now!

    Reply
  4. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    April 11, 2017 at 6:37 pm

    Betsy,
    Loved how you pointed out, from personal experience, that bravery is not the absence of fear…it’s stepping forward in spite of it. Oh that we would all take heart that in all circumstances God goes with us and that in and of itself is the love that drives out fear.
    Blessings,
    Bev xx

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 14, 2017 at 2:40 am

      Hey there, Bev. I think you are one brave woman yourself. Let’s rest in that perfect love. <3

      Reply
  5. Crystal Storms says

    April 13, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    Your words encourage my too often fearful heart. You have lived a very brave life, Betsy. Thank you for sharing your testimony of God by your side each bold step. ((Hugs))

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 14, 2017 at 2:37 am

      Thanks, Crystal. Glad if this encouraged you! But I’m not particularly brave, not at all. 🙂 It’s all God.

      Reply
  6. Linda Stoll says

    April 15, 2017 at 6:59 pm

    He is risen indeed!

    Have a wonderful Easter celebration, Betsy …

    Reply

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