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3 Truths When You Need to Encourage Your Prayer Life

April 24, 2018 by betsydecruz 31 Comments

Is discouragement derailing your prayer life? 6 little words can renew your prayers and 3 truths will renew your hope. You can trust God to work.My prayer life gets derailed often, so I need all the encouragement I can get. My busy schedule can turn prayer into a quick, routine whisper asking God to bless my day, and sometimes not seeing the answers I long for discourages me. Yet recently I experienced a mini-revolution in my prayer life, and it wasn’t because my schedule opened up for longer prayer times or because I received a miraculous answer I hoped for.

Instead my mini-revolution came straight from reading Scripture.

I had an “aha” moment while reading the book of Mark, an excellent book for busy, distracted women who want more of Jesus. Because it’s the shortest gospel. Just 16 chapters, Mark is short, sweet, and powerful, just like I need it to be.

In Mark 1:40-42, a man with leprosy gets on his knees and begs Jesus for healing. Six words catch my eye: “If you are willing, you can…” The leper, of course, wants Jesus to make him clean, and Jesus, moved with compassion, reaches out to him, touches him, and heals him.

Is discouragement derailing your prayer life? 6 little words can renew your prayers and 3 truths will renew your hope. You can trust God to work.

I don’t have leprosy, but these six words give a new shape to my prayers:

  • If you are willing, you can open the right doors for our future.
  • If you are willing, you can provide my daughter with a scholarship.
  • If you are willing, you can reveal yourself to my dear Lost Girl.

This man’s petition and Jesus’ response show me three things that encourage my prayer life.

We Can Trust the Perfect Will of God

With the words, “if you are willing,” the leper offers us a valuable lesson about trusting the will of God. He doesn’t presume to know exactly what God wants to do, yet he’s bold in his specific request.  You and I both know sometimes we don’t receive quite the answers we hope for when we pray, but this phrase expresses trust in God who knows so much better than we do whether or not what we’re praying for is His perfect plan.

The ESV version says, “If you will,” reminding me of how Jesus taught us to pray, “Your will be done” (Matthew 6:10).

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Our All-Powerful God Can Do Anything

The two words “You can” remind us that nothing is impossible with God. The God who created the earth and set the stars in place can do anything. He can “do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us” (Ephesians 3:20).

This speaks encouragement when it seems like our prayers are going unanswered. God is indeed at work, and He is ultimately doing something far greater than we could imagine.

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Our Father Feels Compassion for Us

Jesus’ response to the man shows us the heart of the father towards us: “Moved with compassion, Jesus reached out and touched him” (Mark 1:42, NLT). Whether God answers our prayer immediately like He did for the leper, or whether He has a better plan that will take longer than we’d like, compassion for us is what moves His heart. Either way, we can trust God’s love for us.

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Is discouragement derailing your prayer life? 6 little words can renew your prayers and 3 truths will renew your hope. You can trust God to work.

If you need encouragement for your prayer life, remember the leper’s plea, “If you are willing, you can—.”

Your Heavenly Father can do anything, and you can trust His perfect will. And whether you receive the answer quickly or have to wait, how about sitting still for a moment in God’s presence and receiving His compassion? He longs to reach out and touch you today.

Bible Journaling Idea for Distracted and Discouraged Prayer Warriors:

  1. Read Mark 1:40-45
  2. Write Mark 1:40,41
  3. Write a few of your own “If you are willing, you can___________” prayers.
  4. Take a moment to imagine Jesus reaching down to touch you. Thank Him for His compassion and love for you.

If  you’d like more encouragement for your prayer life, you may enjoy this post: When You Need More Inspiration for your Prayer Life

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  1. Bev @ Walking Well With God says

    April 24, 2018 at 5:51 am

    Betsy,
    What a great opening for prayer. It declares God’s sovereignty and ability and it asks God to grant our prayer if it is within His will. I need to try this. My prayers sometimes can be a rambling mess. I like the simplicity of this….
    Blessings,
    Bev xx

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 24, 2018 at 7:22 am

      Lately Bev, I go more with simple prayer. It builds my faith and trust in God more, helps me think more clearly. <3 Blessings!

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  2. LaNette says

    April 24, 2018 at 8:47 am

    When I don’t know how to pray for a person I have learned to ask God to bless that person with His best for them.

    This was initially born out of a struggle for how to obey the command to bless those who feel like my enemies (Matthew 5:44 “But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,” and Romans 12:14 “Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse.”) It aids me in letting go and letting Him determine what will be best for the person — even if my human desire is to see the other person suffer because of his/her actions.

    Over time, however, the prayer has grown into one to be prayed for more than just my “enemies.” When I remember to pray this way, it helps me to avoid the trap of asking God to give His “stamp of approval” to MY plans or wishes and instead truly seek His best for the one being prayed for.

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 24, 2018 at 2:49 pm

      That is a great thought, LaNette and a beautiful prayer. I appreciate your sharing it. I need to grab hold of Matthew 5:44 myself. 🙂 <3

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  3. Jill says

    April 25, 2018 at 6:26 am

    Thanks Betsy for another well-timed post on God’s will. It’s been my never ending prayer lately and this is just one more illustration of why and how to pray for HIS will, not my own. Thank you for your obedience to share what God gives you to also help so many others. You are a blessing my friend!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 25, 2018 at 9:52 am

      Thanks so much Jill. Your words mean a lot to me today. <3

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  4. Stacey Pardoe says

    April 25, 2018 at 7:02 am

    This is a meaty post! Thank you so much! I know all about a wondering mind and the struggle to focus and be consistent in prayer! Thanks for such practical applications, Betsy!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 25, 2018 at 9:53 am

      I’m the queen of a wandering mind, Stacey! Blessings to you today.

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  5. Lisa Appelo says

    April 25, 2018 at 9:02 pm

    I LOVE the journaling idea. I’m going to be incorporating that for sure — if you are wiling, you can…. Thank you, friend. Always encouraging us to dig in deeper.

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 26, 2018 at 7:26 am

      I’ve been using this prayer a lot as I go about my days, Lisa.

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  6. Sarah Donegan says

    April 26, 2018 at 6:12 am

    What a great idea! I love when a verse jumps out in an exciting, new way!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 26, 2018 at 7:26 am

      I do too! Sometimes they just seem to jump off the page!

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  7. Kristi Woods says

    April 26, 2018 at 7:03 am

    Betsy, you have a beautiful way of leading us right back to truth and encouragement. Loved this piece, and I have a feeling I’ll be reciting “If you are willing, you can…” several times today! 🙂

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 26, 2018 at 7:27 am

      I’m reciting it along with you friend! Thanks for the encouragement.

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  8. Stacey Thureen says

    April 26, 2018 at 7:20 am

    Betsy, some great reminders and insights! Thank you for sharing today over at #HeartEncouragement! Blessings

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  9. Liz says

    April 26, 2018 at 7:52 am

    Oh, oh, oh! Love this Betsy! Been studying Jesus’ touch for tomorrow’s post and that verse from Mark says it! I’ll be sharing this post all over! Love how you encourage women to get in the Word and get the most out of it! Blessings to you, my friend!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:16 pm

      Oh Liz. Your words encourage me more than you know today. Blessings to you, friend.

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  10. Michele Morin says

    April 26, 2018 at 9:30 am

    These words are just the right framework for my own prayers, Betsy, because, truly, in my heart of hearts, I don’t want what God is not willing to give. Thanks for this great insight.

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:16 pm

      I love your insight as well, Michele. We don’t want what God is not willing to give.

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  11. Brenda says

    April 26, 2018 at 10:19 am

    Betsy, I loved this so much this week. Don’t you just love it when the Lord opens our eyes to words in His Word that we’ve just glanced over in the past? And, so thankful He’s moved with compassion for us. And, every part of the trinity too. I was reading in Judges yesterday and came across this, “And He [God] was grieved by their misery.” I loved that. Even when we do things that can sometimes cause our own misery (as was the case with the Israelites in Judges), He’s still a merciful and compassionate God. Oh, friend, where would we be without Him? So thankful for our Lord. Beautiful post, friend. Thank you. ♥

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:18 pm

      That is a very beautiful verse from Judges, Brenda. Thanks for sharing. As I’ve been reading through Old Testament prophets, I’ve been struck at how God is ALWAYS waiting for us to return to Him, no matter how far we stray.

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  12. Crystal Storms says

    April 26, 2018 at 11:43 am

    Such a powerful reminder, Betsy: “Can’t see answers to your prayer? God has a better plan that’s taking longer than you hoped.” Yesterday I saw God answer a prayer that I’d almost give up hope on. His timing is so different than ours but His plans are so much greater too! Thank you for the encouragement, sweet friend!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:18 pm

      Wow, I’m so glad you got to see that answer, Crystal! Hallelujah. I had one today as well! A total surprise provision that blessed my socks off.

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  13. BettieG says

    April 27, 2018 at 6:50 am

    I have been reading in the book of Mark this month, so I really appreciate the way God spoke to you through those simple words! He does that so often for me also. Just a few little words that I may have skipped right over, until He puts His finger on it. These thoughts are such a great way to focus our prayers! Blessings!

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:19 pm

      May the Lord open your eyes to see wonders in His Word as you read through Mark, Bettie. I’m thinking of writing a Bible study on Mark next year!

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  14. bethany mcilrath says

    April 27, 2018 at 9:46 am

    Such a powerful prayer starter, Betsy. Thank you for this! I appreciate being able to pray specifically, Biblically, and submitting to God’s Will, but sometimes I’m not sure how. This will help : )

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    • betsydecruz says

      April 28, 2018 at 1:20 pm

      I’m glad if this encourages you, Bethany. I’m also sometimes unsure, but scripture always gives us good words!

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  15. Pam says

    May 3, 2018 at 7:44 am

    Thank you for this encouragement today. It is just what I needed to hear.

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    • betsydecruz says

      May 4, 2018 at 2:02 am

      I’m so glad, Pam!

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  16. Aimee Imbeau says

    May 4, 2018 at 9:25 am

    Besty, I love this post of yours! The ‘little’ but impactful prayer you are encouraging us to pray goes perfectly with my prayer series! I have chosen your post as my Grace & Truth feature this week. Thanks for linking up to Grace and Truth!

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    • betsydecruz says

      May 5, 2018 at 3:09 pm

      Thanks so much for your encouragement and for featurin this at Grace and Truth. I appreciate the community, Aimee.

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